Is your personality limiting your success? The answer might very well be yes, if the opportunities we decide to engage with do not align with our unique personalities.
While many think that their success is solely hindered by having the right plan, or their mindset, or plain simple luck, all of which are very valid reasons, many fail to see that in the combination of personality traits that are unique to us lays the blueprint of our success.
If the opportunity you are trying to succeed at does not align with your natural strengths, abilities, behaviors, you are more likely to encounter resistance, difficulty and failure. Thus if there is a mismatch between your personality and the opportunity you chose to venture into, then yes your unique personality will limit your success in that opportunity, solely because you were not designed for that opportunity. Thus one of the keys to success lies in discovering the opportunity that matches your personality.
Personality and Personality Traits
Personality is a person's characteristic thoughts, feelings and behavior, and the thoughts, feelings and behavior which is typical of the individual is his/her personality traits. To give you a clear idea of the many different kinds of personality traits in the context of your career choice, here are a few examples of personality traits- adaptive, analytical collaborative, committed, courageous, creative, decisive, detail-oriented, emotionally competent, friendly, hardworking, relationship oriented, trustworthy, visionary, positive, enthusiastic, listener, persistent, self-aware, self-confident and self-disciplined.
The above list of traits are just some traits out of many, some of which may describe you and some which may not, however these traits, whose combination is unique to you is your blueprint to success, if they are matched with the right opportunities.
Having understood this, we can now see why, if not matched properly with the right opportunity, our personalities will limit our success. In this statement alone is the dire importance to discover one's personality traits.
Discovering Our Personality Traits
This discovery of one's personality can be assisted using personality assessments that are designed to reveal a better understanding of our personality. Unearthing these traits without aid will at best bring a few traits to the surface, that too with great effort and thought. Assessment tools bring to your awareness the aspects of yourself that you never knew of, that could smoothen your transition from a state of resistance in a path that you are not designed for, to a state of success in a path or opportunity that fits your traits perfectly.
Achieving Greater Success
Well simply put, when you do the things that you are anyway good at, instead of tasks that you find difficult and are resistant towards, you achieve great efficiency with least effort and resistance, accelerating greater success effortlessly and quickly. Simply playing your strengths on the field allows you to perform tasks with ease, natural competence and consistency.
In conclusion, most people who have little to no idea about the personality traits unique to their personality end up pursuing opportunities which are complete mismatches or are completely out of alignment with their natural strengths and in that sense it is safe to say that personality, if not matched with the right opportunity, can limit success in your life.
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